Saturday, May 17, 2014

An Eventful Trip to Maine and Alabama

On Monday, the 1st of May, Ben and I flew out of San Pedro Sula for Boston, MA. Arriving late in Boston, we rented car and made the 3 + hour drive to Farmington Falls, Maine arriving around 2:30 am on Friday at my parents house. Although we had planned this trip several months before, it was an opportune moment to arrive as my dad was in the VA hospital for extreme pain in his feet.

On Sunday I was invited to speak at Lighthouse Christian Church in Phillips. The congregation very generously donated towards our ongoing water purification project. Thank you so much!

It was strange in a way to be back "home". I no longer think of Maine as home in the sense of where we live, Honduras has become home to us in that way, but because I grew up there, I will always think of Maine as "home" as the place of my childhood. Some things struck me as different. One was how busy everyone seems to be, coming and going and doing. I have become used to a more laid back lifestyle and mindset, although I am far busier than I was a year ago and at times feel that I am slipping back into what I came here to get away from.

So moving on to another subject...until two weeks ago I had never really seen gluttony as a sin. Gluttony has for centuries been known as one of the seven deadly sins and is defined in the dictionary as "excessive eating and drinking" (and I write this somewhat facetiously, but not entirely). Honestly, I have had a love affair with food all my life. As a child I was "husky", as my mother calls it, slimming down through high school and into my late thirties, but the older I get I find it easier to revert to that "figure of speech and body". There are two foods that I love, probably above all others. Bacon and donuts...not necessarily in that order. I come from a good mid western heritage where bacon grease is an essential ingredient to all vegetables dishes. Thirty years on the road, eating in truck stops and fast food restaurants has not helped either.

On Monday I indulged myself in the sin of gluttony...and paid the price. I fried up a good half pound of bacon, chased by an excellent sharp cheddar. At midnight I was paying for my sins, rolling on the floor in agony, with what turned out to be, my first real gall bladder attack. Of course, not knowing what I had, and after 12 hours of intense pain, I went to the emergency room, where upon I immediately began to feel better. Of course.

Pitiful, embarrassing, but tellin' it the way it is.

The doctor wanted to remove my gall bladder asap, but Ben and I did not want to miss Trey and Laura's wedding in Birmingham...and I am so glad I didn't. After an all night drive back to Boston to catch a very early flight we made it to Slycauga, AL. It was great to see Trey and Laura again, to meet their families, some of whom we already knew as they had visited Trey in Honduras. Others have been facebook friends for quite awhile and it was good to meet in person.

I have to say, southern hospitality is an awesome thing! I was very well taken care of and not allowed to eat anything that might trigger another attack. And the food looked so incredible! Mounds of BBQed pulled pork with a special made BBQ sauce just for the wedding, baked beans, potato salad, macaroni and cheese.....oooohhhhhh. I admit it, I nibbled at some of it when no one was monitoring me :) Truth be told, I was scared to death I would end up with another attack while on the plane home, so I was very careful.

The wedding was an outdoor event. It rained right up until the moment of the wedding and then the sun came out. God is good! The bride was radiant, the ceremony touching and it was an honor for us to attend this important event in the life of a young couple who have a special place in our hearts. I hope they don't mind if I share a couple of photos here.


The wedding



















 
followed by a wiffle ball game, the bride at bat, the groom pitching
 
Another late night with an early flight to Houston which was delayed due to weather, Ben and I running the entire length of Houston's G.W. Bush Airport, narrowly missing the only flight in to San Pedro Sula for the day, Mark picking us up at the airport for the two hour ride home, we finally arrive back home in Sigua, both of us very glad to be home. 
 

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

I become Living Hope Adoption Agency's Representative in Honduras

Living Hope Adoption Agency  

One of the things Barbe and I had wanted to do when we came to Honduras was, in some way, help the many children who are either orphans or who have been abandoned by their parents. Although there are orphans here, the majority of children who are in "homes" or "orphanages" are more accurately and legally described as "abandoned". Usually they are abandoned in the hospital at birth or left with friends and family members who either can't or won't care for them, or some have even been found in dumpsters. When this happens, IHNFA, the equivalent of our Child Protective Services, steps in and takes over the responsibility for their care and placement in foster homes, children's homes or government facilities. 

Although at one time it did look like we would be working at a children's home, we never dreamed that one day we would not only be Honduran foster parents, but that I would also be representing Living Hope Adoption Agency here in Honduras.

Not the official document.
LHAA is a non profit, Hague certified, international adoptions agency based in Fort Washington, PA. Founded in 1994 by Dr. Samuel Fang, they have for many years facilitated adoptions from China to the U.S. and have had a presence here in Honduras for over 3 years. Just recently they have been privileged to begin facilitating adoptions from Uganda as well.

One of the most important things about LHAA is that they are Hague accredited. Honduras is a non Convention country but on July 14th, 2014 all U.S. adoption service providers working with families in non-Convention countries will need to be accredited just as if they were working in a Convention country. Basically, what this means is that anyone in the U.S. wanting to adopt internationally must work through a Hague accredited agency.

Honduras has statistically been a very difficult country to adopt from. According to information I acquired from one website, there were only 19 adoptions last year from Honduras to the United States and a sum total of 150 from 1999 - 2013. Because of the corruption or illegal child marketing that can accompany adoptions, it is probably a good thing that Honduras does not make adoptions easy. However, it doesn't make life any better for the 10,000 plus children who need a home of their own with parents who will love and care for them.

My role will be to open an office here in Siguatepeque, to work directly with IHNFA to encourage a smooth  and relatively speedy adoption process, host the adoptive parents when they make their visits to Honduras and in general, help in any way needed to make sure these children have the best possible chance at a new life.

Although I am fully aware that this will not be an easy task, I am both energized and hopeful that we will be able to make a difference for at least some of these beautiful children, despite the challenges that lie ahead. I am constantly reminded of the passage of scripture in James that says that "...religion that God accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after widows and orphans in their distress..." In all that Barbe and I attempt to do through LHAA, this is and will continue to be our only goal...to look after orphans in their time of distress, and I firmly believe that adoptions are one of the best ways to achieve this goal in a larger sense.





Friday, April 18, 2014

Mary Poppins

Me and Mary Poppins

I'm not quite sure what gets into me sometimes, but here she is...all the way from Cerro Azul. 

Some animals just reach out to me, kind of like Alfredo did, and I just have to bring them home. That's what this little gal did...along with the promise of fresh eggs each morning.

So, we bagged her up and brought her home. 

Chicken to go with Tyler Nevala

She's very good with kids.

As you can see, she fits right in.

She's a pretty good conversationalist.

Sweet talkin'

And Tiger is resigned to yet another interloper. Sigh!

Meeting Tiger.

And no, that is not what you're thinking it is on my shoulder....